You don’t need to force anyone to talk to you. You’re friendly and easy to talk to, so if people are giving you the cold shoulder or ignoring your texts/calls, they aren’t interested. There is no point in making them care about you as only they can decide who their heart leads them to.
Don’t force anyone to talk to you, as this will only cause them to be more distant. It may seem like the only solution, but it will just make things worse for both of you.
If someone doesn’t want to talk to you, they’ll find a way not to. So when their excuses run out, and they’re making no attempt to even speak with you or come home, don’t push it further by calling/texting/messaging them again. They would have done so if they wanted to talk to you already.
The best thing you can do is let go, as this person has made their decision, and the only one at fault here is them for wasting your time and feelings. Never force anyone to talk to you. This will only hurt you more. If the person you want to talk to is making no effort, it’s better to let them go so they can find who they are looking for.
Don’t force anyone to talk to you; this will only cause harm. All you can do is be friendly and focus on yourself. If someone doesn’t want to talk to you, nothing more can be done. It might seem like everything at the moment, but just let go of it; otherwise, it will only hurt you in the future.
Letting go means accepting their decision and moving on with your life. Don’t think about what could have been or how things would be if they were different. Because things aren’t different, and all there is now is the reality we have to face. Never force anyone to talk to you, as this will only harm you. Be friendly and keep it simple, as people who want to talk will always find a way.
If someone doesn’t want to talk to you, then don’t bother wasting your time on them anymore. If they slowly disappear and stop caring about you, move on to someone else who wants and appreciates everything you do for them. Don’t force anyone to talk to you, as this will only make both of your lives more difficult. Let go of it and focus on yourself, as nothing more can be done when things like this happen. Be friendly and conversational, as people around you will appreciate your friendly nature and friendly conversation.
When things like this happen, the only thing that can be done is accept it for what it is. You tried your best to make a connection, but sometimes this doesn’t work out. So don’t force anyone to talk to you or prolong the situation further. Let go of it and move on with your life instead of wasting more time on someone who doesn’t care about what you have done for them.
When you force anyone to talk to you, do not be surprised if that person says nothing or escapes from your presence. Like any other animal, humans are protective of their personal space and will avoid others who invade it. When you force them to talk with you, they think (rightly) that you want to harm them somehow.
They may very well see an opening in your friendly chatter and take it for a chance to run away or even attack you. Please do yourself a favor by keeping your distance from anyone being forced into conversation with you until they have had the opportunity to trust you first.
Never force anyone to talk to you. Keep friendly but keep your distance until they open up naturally of their own accord.
Never force anyone to talk to you in a relationship
Since the beginning of time, humans have struggled with communicating in relationships. Even something as simple as asking your wife how her day was can be daunting if she doesn’t want to talk about it.
So when someone tells you that they don’t feel like talking, why do we go into a psycho mode? Here’s my best answer: everyone is different. I know you’ve heard this before but stay with me for a moment because there are three things at play here which will unlock this mystery for you…
1) Some people need to talk every day about everything. These are the types who keep journals and call their moms every day without fail (if they’re lucky enough to have them still around). They need to get out whatever is on their mind, and if they don’t get a chance to do so, you’ll find them perched up in a tree somewhere, wearing a camo hat and orange pants.
2) Others only need to talk about important matters. The rest of the time, these people are very independent and do not feel the need to discuss anything else unless something requires it. They may be friendly but only want to engage in the one-on-one conversation when they have something specific that needs to be addressed or asked. Otherwise, these types will go off into the wilderness by themselves until they’re ready for more social interaction.
3) Then there’s everyone else who doesn’t care how much or little talking is going on around them. Of course, this is my personal opinion, but I think most people fall into this category. It doesn’t bother them enough that they have to talk very much in relationships–they are friendly when it feels natural.
So let’s look at these three types of individuals more closely here.
1) The first type who needs to talk all the time will not be comfortable unless you include yourself in their constant monologue. They don’t do well with silence and won’t respect your boundaries if you tell them you don’t want to hear about something so often.
These are the types who will follow you around, telling long, drawn-out stories which you cannot get away from no matter how you try. Maybe they’re insecure or like to hear themselves talk, but the bottom line is that you’ll be sick of it before too long.
2) The second type who doesn’t need much communication will become friendly with you but only in a minimal capacity. They don’t want to share anything personal about their lives and would rather not discuss extraneous matters. If you disagree with one of these types on something important, they will probably get defensive (or passive-aggressive) because they are so independent. These types may have several friends but don’t take time to build any deep relationships.
3) Finally, there’s everyone else… friendly enough when appropriate but not at all bothered by silence for hours at a time. They may even welcome it because they need that alone time sometimes too. But if someone else comes along and wants to talk, the friendly conversation will come naturally for them… perhaps not with the same vigor as the first or second types, but friendly enough.
As you can see, there are many flavors of people who have different communication needs in relationships, so never force anyone to do anything they’re uncomfortable with–including talking. These three types of people may look the same on the outside, but their differences create an atmosphere of tension when one of them enjoys talking more than another does.
It’s just how it is, so try not to get caught up in their behavior. If you love these families, then be patient and realize that they aren’t doing this on purpose. If it becomes a relationship issue, then move on from those too different from you to be compatible with you. You’ll both be happier for having done so.
Some reasons to never force anyone to talk to you
1. Conversation must not take much effort
If you’re friendly and conversational, people will be friendly to you. If they aren’t friendly back, don’t bother wasting any more energy on them because it will not get you anywhere. They aren’t worth your time or effort. Only focus on yourself and be friendly at all times – this is what will make people appreciate you!
The conversation only takes a little bit of help from both sides – if one person is struggling with initiating conversation, then perhaps encourage them by saying something like “I’m here for you if you ever want to talk about anything,” or start the conversation yourself by asking questions about what they’re interested in.
2. Time is important
Time is essential to be spending it worrying about people who don’t want to talk to you.
Be friendly, and at the end of the day, friendly conversation is still friendly conversation no matter what happens between two people.
If someone doesn’t want to talk to you, there’s nothing more that can be done, so let go of it and move on with your life instead.
Being friendly is never a waste of time, even if some people around only appreciate the friendly chat because they are friendly themselves. If anything, this proves how friendly these people enjoy friendly conversations!
So don’t focus too much on one person who doesn’t care about what you have done for them or how friendly you are–it’ll just cause unnecessary stress.
3. Both of you are not the same
It is unfair to expect them to act the same way as you do.
Say pleasant and conversational things because people will always appreciate a friendly conversation. The friendly and conversational conversation is friendly enough without pushing anyone into anything they don’t want to do.
Don’t force anyone to talk to you or even continue any conversation or relationship with you, as some things just aren’t meant to work out like this. Some people may try their best, but it doesn’t work out despite all their efforts due to many factors which are totally beyond their control.
4. There should be harmony in relationships
Never force anyone to talk to you because it will create problems in relationships. Be friendly and conversational so that people around you can enjoy friendly conversation with you. Anything forced upon nobody wants it. If someone becomes unresponsive, let them go instead of forcing themselves on them.
The relationship is based on mutual understanding and trust, which one must maintain at any cost. If anything goes wrong, accept it for what it is and move on in life to be happy rather than miserable. Always think positive; never force anyone for anything.”
5. Love is not by force
You can’t force someone to love you. If they don’t, move on and focus on yourself instead. Always be friendly and conversational, as a friendly conversation is always appreciated.
Focus on yourself and keep being friendly no matter what happens because people appreciate your friendly nature and conversation.
When things like this happen, all you can do is accept it for what it is and move on from there with your life in the best possible way. Never force anyone to love you; otherwise, everyone loses out.”
6. Don’t force relationships
When you force a relationship, the situation will only get worse. This is because people don’t like being forced into anything, so if you force them into talking to you, they’ll most likely lose interest in what you have to offer. It’s all about being friendly instead of forcing anyone to talk to you, as a friendly conversation is always more rewarding for both sides involved.
In conclusion
Let things flow naturally without any pressure or force involved, and soon enough, everything will go back to normal. Be friendly with one another and allow things to happen naturally instead of trying to push them in any direction.”