Feeling discouraged is a familiar feeling in the day-to-day life of many people. It could be due to an unexpected event, or it could be because someone doesn’t feel like they are getting anywhere in their personal life and work. Whatever the reason for feelings of discouragement may be, there are ways to recover from them. In this blog post, we will discuss three steps that can help you get back on your feet after downing in the dumps!
Be selective about with whom you spend time with
Be selective when you are feeling discouraged. You may want to spend time with someone who feels the same way, but you’re also giving them permission to stay in that mindset and not make any changes.
Be selective when it comes to social media too. When we scroll through our feeds on Instagram or Facebook, what do we see? Friends are living their lives at a breakneck pace by doing amazing things while you are sitting here feeling discouraged about your life. It’s easy to get caught up in comparing yourself with others and then feel like everything is hopeless because of this comparison game (or “sad-stagram,” as some call it). Instead of spending all day scrolling through these comparisons, which will only keep us down, be more selective about how much time you devote.
Make a list of things that have gone well recently.
Recent or past well-achieved memories can help you feel better. Focus on those memories when you are feeling discouraged, and they will provide an emotional lift to help get yourself out of the slump. What happened? When did it happen? Who was there at that time? How do I feel about this memory now? (happy, sad) Memories can also serve as reminders of what is possible in life. You may be experiencing a discouraging moment right now, but look back over your list and remember that these happy moments did exist for you too! As such, there is no reason why other happy things couldn’t occur again down the road.” “Recognize that each person has their hardships,” she said.
Reach out to others for encouragement or support
When you are feeling discouraged, it is a natural reaction to withdraw from others and isolate yourself. When you do this, the problem becomes much worse because now you are feeling discouraged and alone.
Instead of withdrawing, reach out for people to talk with or spend time with those who can give encouragement or support somehow. The simple act of talking about how you feel and what’s going on can be very helpful, even if it doesn’t change anything right away.
Reaching out will help remind you that others around you care about your feelings and want to see things get better too! This also helps make sure that someone else knows what’s happening if something bad happens while you’re hurting inside (like a fire).
Spend time doing something you enjoy
What makes you the most joyful and enjoyable?
What makes you feel good? What’s your favorite activity or hobby?
Please do it. It doesn’t matter what time of day, but do it for 15-30 minutes and set a timer if that helps.
It could be reading poetry, playing piano, walking in the woods–whatever brings you joy and happiness. Do anything where you’re doing something purely for yourself without any expectations on performing or achieving some goal other than feeling happy.
You can also take this opportunity to connect with others who share these interests: is there an online forum explicitly devoted to discussing the topic? Could one of those forums offer encouragement when things are hard? Or find someone local who shares your interest and spend time chatting about your present cause you’re feeling discouraged. Recovering from these problematic emotions is just a matter of identifying what’s causing them and making efforts to address those issues.
This can mean seeking out help through therapy, adopting a more straightforward routine with more time for self-care or hobbies, or finding other ways to manage stress (exercise! meditation!).
You’ll have moments where it feels like you’re never going to get better–but keep in mind that while the journey might be extended, your attitude will always dictate how well you recover.”
Set achievable goals
Failure is the pillar of success. So when you are feeling discouraged, it’s time to set some achievable goals that will make you feel like your life is moving in the right direction.
When we are feeling discouraged and lost in our lives, it can be challenging to know which way is up. Our focus should not be on where we want to go but on how far we have come already. The end goal may seem foggy or too distant for us to see at this point; however, if we look back just a little way down the path, all of what has been accomplished becomes clear again.
It’s important also when making those smaller steps towards an ultimate goal that they are something tangible and measurable. Hence, there is always progress being made instead of only reaching out blindly into nothingness.
Take care of your physical health by eating right and exercising regularly.
Discourageous feelings maybe go away if you take care of your physical health by eating right and exercising regularly.
Eat a healthy diet that includes protein, vegetables, fruits, and whole grains, as well as plenty of water to keep the body hydrated. Regular exercise is also essential for maintaining one’s mental state, which will help ward off feelings of discouragement in many cases.
An important thing to remember when feeling discouraged is to do something every day, whether it be going on social media or reading an article with no commitment involved, to establish some momentum again. It may sound counterintuitive, but once they start doing things more often, their spirits will lift significantly because they feel like they are accomplishing at least some tasks throughout the day despite how overwhelming everything else seems.
Practice self-care by getting enough sleep each night
Enough sleep each night is important for a variety of reasons. Firstly, it helps to keep the body energized. Practicing self-care by getting enough sleep each night is also an integral part of recovering from discouragement and feeling better about oneself. Ensuring that you are well rested will help make your days more productive and positive in general. An excellent way to start practicing this skill would be to set alarms on your phone or computer so that you do not have trouble remembering when it’s time for bed at night!
Identify what’s causing your feelings of discouragement
By identifying what things causing your feelings of discouragement, you can start to take steps in the right direction.
Do I have a goal that is not being met? – Is there something holding me back from achieving my goals when it seems so close but out of reach?
Have other people been making negative comments about what I’m doing or how I’m living? Can they be discouraging by telling me this will never work and giving up on things too quickly because others are knocking us down at every turn
It’s time for a reality check! You need to ask yourself if any one of these points might apply to your situation. It could just be one thing, like receiving negativity from friends and family members, which turns into feeling discouraged.
When you are feeling discouraged, it’s important not to let your feelings dominate. You need to take time for yourself and do something that will help relieve pressure from the situation. One thing is journaling and talking about what you’re feeling with someone who understands or has been in a similar place before. Remember, these people are there to support you through this process of getting back up after being knocked down again!
Address those issues, so they don’t come up again
Address those issues, so they don’t come up again. This is the most important thing to do because as long as those issues are still unresolved, they’ll keep coming up again, and it will be hard for you to feel empowered enough to take action on your behalf.
If these problems are related to work, talk with a colleague or human resources about them. If they’re more personal, try confiding in a close friend or family member about what’s bothering you instead of holding everything inside. Allow yourself some time off afterward so that you can decompress properly from whatever difficult situation was upsetting you before moving forward with any project or task at hand.”
Get rid of anything that reminds you negatively about yourself, including clothes.
- This will help you get a fresh start and not feel like you carry the burden of memories with you.
- Cleaning your room is also another way to do this because it can be overwhelming to clean up after yourself when feeling discouraged, so try doing some other quick tasks first, such as making your bed or tidying up any clutter in different parts of the house.
- When cleaning, think about what kind of person would live here if they were living their best life possible; focus on creating an environment that puts positive energy into every space rather than negative thoughts because those tend to creep back over time.
Recognize that there will be bad days as well as good days
By recognizing that there will be good days and bad days, you will not feel discouraged when there is a rough day. Recognizing that things are bound to change for the better, and it’s just part of life helps one cope with feeling discouraged.
Believing in oneself can help someone deal with feelings of discouragement too. It also means believing that everything happens for a reason which might lead to an event or accomplishment they would never have thought possible before.
This does not mean always thinking positively because sometimes we need to reflect on what went wrong, so something like this doesn’t happen again but still believing in ourselves nonetheless. That leads to another strategy: setting achievable goals then working towards them, even if some don’t work out.
Accept criticism graciously
People around you are always going to offer their opinions. Whether it’s good or bad, don’t take them personally.
If you’re feeling down about some criticism someone has given you, and you want to realize feeling discouraged, try one of these tips: – Accept the critic’s opinion gracefully and politely without an emotional reaction– Avoid taking a few minutes alone time during your day to avoid being too hard on yourself- Remember that there is always something positive even if it doesn’t seem like it at first glance- Focus on what makes you happy rather than what makes you unhappy.
Don’t compare yourself to others – everyone has struggles and challenges.
It is one of the most harmful things you can do to yourself, and it is also not a fair comparison.
It is easy to get feeling discouraged when images of success on social media surround us. We must remember the reality behind those posts–there were hard days, tough decisions, mistakes made along the way, tears shed in private moments before clutching their joy with both hands. There will be bad times, too–we all have them–but comparing yourself only makes what comes next seem worse than it may be.
- Always celebrate your small victories.
- Don’t compare yourself to others.
- Everyone has struggles and challenges.
- Celebrate every achievement, no matter how big or small.
- Keep going even if you don’t have any company.
Talk openly about your struggles with someone else who is willing to listen without judgment or criticism.
By talking openly, you get the opportunity to share what you are feeling in a safe environment with someone willing to listen without judgment or criticism. Listen carefully and validate the person’s feelings by acknowledging their feelings. Offer encouragement, support, and words of wisdom when appropriate. Avoid minimizing the person’s struggles or telling them not to feel that way. It can be challenging for some people to find someone they trust enough, but it gets easier over time as more interactions occur.
Bottom line,
You may be feeling discouraged right now. The good news is, you can take steps to change that! We’ve compiled a list of ways for how to handle discouragement and get back on your feet again. Are there any ideas here that resonate with you? If so, we encourage you to give them a try-they could make all the difference in helping you feel better about yourself and what’s going on around you today or tomorrow.